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Is The Fairy Tale Idea Ruining Your Relationships?

Are fairy tale stories killing your relationships? In this podcast I talk about how our unconscious story telling is stopping us from evolving and growing in relationships and sometimes making us run and flee. I also talk about....

  • Why we overlook the unticked boxes
  • How if we had the fairy tale we would all die of boredom
  • Why we must release the fairy tale
  • Why the honeymoon period is meant to come to an end
  • How to use this as a teaching tool and so much more...

 

 

 

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Why Are We All Being Triggered Right Now?

In episode 60 I talk about many difficult topics. Why world conflict and challenges are triggering so many of us right now. I talk about repressed pain, volcanic eruptions taking place through people and...

  • Why repressed fears are being projected through our leaders
  • How our leaders like Trump, Boris Johnson and more are not responsible but a representation of a huge energy shift taking place, while they may be fuelling conflict, it is our own inner world that is calling out for attention
  • Why we will continue to project onto others and encounter conflict until we own it and become fully empowered
  • Why the loss of identity and fear of death is catalysing conflict right now
  • How a sense of a loss of power is creating a desire to control our reality and so much more...

PLEASE NOTE: I do talk about Donald Trump, guns, the 'Me Too' movement, Civil War, the opposition, prejudice and more. No judgements of what is right or wrong, simply an overview and conversation on what could be taking place right now for us all and how to limit our triggers.

Sources mentioned in this podcast:

Kari Hohne quote - Cafe Au Soul

 

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Why All Pleasure Is Pain

In episode 59 I talk about pleasure and how it can become pain if left unchecked. I go into:

  • Why pleasure is pain
  • How we can get lost in the seeking and miss out on what is here
  • Ways to embrace what is, even when life is difficult
  • Why tools like EFT can bring relief when challenged and so much more...

 

Sources mentioned in this podcast:

Brad Yates - EFT teacher - see more on You Tube

Byron Katie - author of 'Loving What Is' and many more

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Why You Need To Leave Your Narcissist Partner

Episode Summary: 

Listen to episode 58 of Kelly Martin Speaks, 'Why You Need To Leave Your Narcissist Partner'

In this episode I talk about narcissism, gas-lighting and toxic relationships. This is not just with a partner, but can be with parents, children, employers, religious leaders, politicians and more. I go into:

  • The 10 signs that you are in a relationship with a narcissist
  • My own experiences of narcissism in a romantic relationship
  • How narcissists and gas-lighters can often be one in the same
  • Why you may be being gas-lighted and not know about and so much more...

If you feel you are in a relationship with a narcissist or someone is gas-lighting you please get help from an expert in mental health or go to friends or family for support. You don't have to do this all alone.

To start becoming aware of the gas-lighting start taking notes of what is happening, so you have written evidence so you don't need to question your sanity.

A practice of meditation can help you strengthen you sense of self, your intuition and give you your own clarity from a place of peace and wisdom.

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Resources used in this podcast:

psychology.com

thrivetalk.com

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Are You Afraid To Be Alone?

Episode Summary: 

Listen to episode 57 of Kelly Martin Speaks, 'Are You Afraid To Be Alone?'

In this episode I talk about romance, relationships and attachments and where our real fear of aloneness comes from and how to change this.

  • Why the 'happily ever after' fantasy is never sustainable
  • How the idea that another person can fill the hole of loneliness is not possible
  • How to begin to make peace with 'aloneness'
  • Why oneness is what we seek more than anything and so much more...

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Why It’s A Gift To Not Know Who You Are

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Listen to episode 56 of Kelly Martin Speaks, 'Why It's A Gift To Not Know Who You Are'

In this episode I talk about coming to a place of transition, a blank space in life which the mind desperately wants to fill and why this place is an absolute gift!

  • Why life brings us to this place in life
  • How not knowing can reveal so much about what we need to let go of
  • Why not knowing and surrendering to this can actually be far more empowering than trying to 'power through' to a destination or to mould our lives to how we 'think' they should be and so much more...

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Is It Time To Accept Your Life Challenges?

Episode Summary: Listen to episode 55 of Kelly Martin Speaks, 'Is It Time To Accept Your Life Challenges?' In this episode I talk about acceptance and how to accept the truth's happening in our lives.

  • Why acceptance is nothing to do with hopelessness
  • How to accept what is from an empowering place
  • Why acceptance may be a time of deep surrender or a time of new choices and opportunities and so much more...

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How To Be At Peace

Episode Summary: Listen to episode 54 of Kelly Martin Speaks, 'How To Be At Peace' In this episode I talk about what genuine peace is.

  • Why peace is not what you think it is
  • How peace evolves from within the pain not in resisting the pain
  • Why being at peace has always been within you and so much more...

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Why You Must Risk Failure To Know Success

Episode Summary: Listen to episode 53 of Kelly Martin Speaks, 'Why You Must Risk Failure To Know Success' In this episode I talk about taking risks and why they are important, even when they appear to not work out.

  • Why committing to something can be a risk but also is far better than regret
  • How taking risks is all about the journey rather than the pot of the gold at the end of the rainbow
  • Why when risks appear to not work out they are still a success and does not mean you have failed or 'it' whatever 'it' is has failed and so much more...

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Are You Ready For Powerful Transformation?

Episode Summary: Listen to episode 52 of Kelly Martin Speaks, 'Are You Ready For Powerful Transformation?' In this episode I talk about what real genuine transformation is.

  • Why transformation is nothing to do with adding to your life
  • How transformation brings about a rebirth
  • Why we need to acknowledge if we are truly ready because of what true transformation does in our lives and so much more...

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